I think a lot of men don't know what being a man means because they subscribed to someone else's definition and never really questioned its meaning for themselves. But that lack of questioning has also led to a lot of mixed messages many men have ingrained and accepted as a whole.
Read MoreI think Valentine’s Day puts too much pressure on couples to show up differently than they normally would and it winds up isolating those who don't have that love.
Read MoreEven though professional cuddling costs money, there are quite a few skill sets that go into it—relational skills, an understanding of boundaries, and schedule reliability.
Read MoreI don’t think it’s weird for a woman to come to see a Professional Cuddler. I’ve seen one myself when I didn’t want to be the professional for a bit—yes, a Professional Cuddler went to go see a Professional Cuddler.
Read MoreIf you're paying a professional cuddler, this to me means that you are trying to find somebody who can create a safe space for you. I'm not just talking about Safe Spaces™, I'm talking about your space where you can be you. It's a place where you can learn to be vulnerable.
Read More“I don't remember having a conversation with you last time,” I told him, “and maybe I was okay with it at that time. But I'm telling you this time that I'm not okay with it. It's a different day and a different feeling for me.”
Read MoreYou put yourself in a vulnerable position by asking for touch, especially if you’re a person who never really got the opportunity to get touch growing up or if you grew up with the idea that it wasn't okay or safe for you to ask for it.
Read MoreIt is so important for me to know my limits and how I can help people within them. There are many ways in cuddle session so I can help people, and I am a very skilled person, companion, and cuddler.
Read MoreSo if everyone does this all the time, why do we need to talk about it? I mean, if it’s a part of everyday life, why does it matter so much if people are doing more of it? That’s their choice, right?
Read MoreWhen he finally sees me, would he be happy to see me? Anxious? Try to avoid me? Want to pretend he doesn't know me? I still don't know if there was something I did that he didn't like! I didn't know how it would go down, and I felt anxious about what was in store for me.
Read MoreAnd you know what? I'm still not there. I'm not perfect. And I’ve never been perfect and never will be.
Read MoreThis isn't just about cuddling for me. This is about you and what you’re walking in the door with.
I think most of my clients would be surprised to hear that I do think about them a lot, even when I'm not working.
Read MoreI treat my professional cuddling practice like a business because it is, and to provide the best service I can to you I need your email and phone number when you're looking to book a session with me. Here's what I use that information for.
Read MoreI give my opinions and thoughts after an unethical professional cuddling scandal in Arizona came to the public. I have a lot of strong opinions about this.
Read MoreSometimes when I check in on a client that saw me before they tell me they weren’t sure how long they would have to wait before they could book another session. They were worried I would say no if it was too soon, and they were worried that maybe I didn’t like them.
Read MoreWhat happens when a client gets into a relationship when they didn't have one before?
Read MoreThis isn’t just a “Meet new friends, hug a lot and get paid” gig.
Read MoreOften people keep the two intertwined together: If they say no to me, they're saying no ABOUT me. But that's not always the case. It's just that particular thing.
Read MoreI don’t do sex work, but the laws around sex work may affect me too.
Read MoreThis is the one question I get asked over and over and over again when I first tell people I'm a professional cuddler.
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